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For years, we always used cash envelopes for most of our purchases. It worked well to help us stick with our budget, but we slowly moved over to just using our debit cards and tracking everything through YouNeedABudget.
It has worked well, until the other day when I realized it wasn’t working as well as I had thought.
Let me tell you about it…
You see, we’ve been teaching Kierstyn (our 4-year-old) about money. We’ve been talking about how the way to pay for things is to earn money. We’ve been giving her opportunities to do extra chores in order to earn money for things she wants to buy.
Well, there was something she wanted to buy and she didn’t have enough money for it. I told her she could do some more chores to earn the money and she replied, “Or you could just use your card to buy it.”
I realized that she has no concept that my debit card is linked to our bank account which has the actual cash in it. I tried to explain this to her, but I could tell it wasn’t making a lot of sense.
She just thinks that swiping a plastic card means you don’t have to use money to pay for something. And that a plastic card is access to unlimited ability to buy things.
I’m thinking maybe it’s time to go back to cash envelopes for awhile so my younger kids see me using real cash like my older kids did? Or at least make sure I’m pulling out cash to use regularly and having these conversations with the younger kids about how cash, banks, debit cards, and money works.
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